You know the inevitable question, "Who do you want to be when you grow up?" First, it's an innocent question typically answered with an unrealistic option like "princess" or "superhero", but eventually adults expect you to have an answer. Somewhere in between reaching for the stars came me actually thinking, researching, and talking to adults about my options.
I actually had my mind set on being a nurse up until the DAY of my college freshman orientation despite my heavy involvement in our business organization in high school (FBLA). I saw this as me being indecisive, but truly I think I just hadn't had a chance to find myself yet. All through college, I knew that I had chosen the right path for me. Marketing was a chance for me to use my creativity alongside all of my business skills every day. I still hold true to this decision, and I have no regrets, but sometimes I find myself wondering, "What do I want to be when I grow up?" Considering everything from graduate school to online certificates to just moving to the forest and living off of the land, I don't think I'll ever feel like I got it 100% right.
While this has been scary for me - I have come to realize that not many people (if any) feel completely certain that they made the perfect decision or went down the perfect path. For me, this has been a relief and now my goal is to just consider my happiness where I'm at. Comparisons to hypothetical paths I never took are not helpful for anyone!
In 2023, my goal is to do what I can to satisfy the who do you want to be when you grow up in the back of my mind, but not to focus too hard on the path not taken.
Kind words from peers, mentors, coworkers, and supervisors throughout my professional journey.